Nobody's the dream boyfriend everyday.

Well in every relationship has good days and bad days. There are limits to what you can ask that someone. The other day one of my friends 'aired out her dirty laundry'. She was telling everyone indirectly about how bad her boyfriend looks at other girls. He looks at how some girls dresses, how big or firm their boobs or butt are you know 'normal' stuff. I don't have enough details to judge how bad the argument was. I just want to speak up what I feel and maybe give a little advise. If you feel that you're constantly crying everyday because he cares more about himself all the time, then you should leave. Now.

Anyway, two reasons why he checks out other girls;

Number 1: You have no assets. You don't bother to look nicer for him once in while. Im not saying go get plastic surgery or be fake but guys really like it when their girlfriends make the effort to look nicer for them and only them. Maybe try on new clothes, style your hair differently, new perfume, get your nails done, just to get his attention. If you can't, then maybe you should make the effort to try new things together. New adventures with them will definitely strengthen your relationship.

Number 2: Its perfectly normal if they took a glance but not stare or look at them a few times (in a long run). That just shows how disgusting he is. (Prolly not getting any sex from you BUT its perfectly fine to wait for marriage or the perfect time. If he's not giving you the attention and respect, then tell him nicely. You should let him know you respect yourself enough to demand more from him but please be careful.

Nobody's perfect. You can't demand that your boyfriend never notice a girl's ass. It's just gonna happen. Don't worry too much. He probably doesn't even realize what he's doing. Tell him it's disrespectful, but don't take his wandering eye too seriously unless there's something else going on.

Note: Men are always going to look at other women and there's nothing you can change about it, ever! Just remember he is with you for a reason. Now if his behaviour changes, becomes questionable, so listen to your gut instinct and see if there's a reason to be conceded. Do have some confidence cause men do find that sexy. SO, its only natural for humans to check other humans.