Mistakes

It's  been awhile and I am quite lonely that I tend to over think about things that may not actually be true that's happening in my relationship. Doubts was one of the reason (which was bad) and secondly, I've been thinking what I've done wrong because lately he's been neglecting me.......

So I've been thinking what are the biggest mistakes that we girls (such as myself which we won't admit) tend to make in our relationship.

1st: Not respecting his personal space.
Usually when he is in a bad mood or doesn't feel like talking, leave him alone. Most guys don't like to 'talk about things' like we girls do. They prefer being alone, and they'll work things out naturally. So, be patient and give him time and space.

2nd: Neglecting friends.
When you're in a relationship, don't be those girls who forgets her friends and interests just to be with a guy. Always make time for both.

3rd: Nagging.
Guys hate girls who often nag. They don't want another mum in their lives. (Okay im just kidding) No guy is perfect, they are not capable of giving you every single thing you want. There will be times you'll not be too happy about how he do things or what he does. Don't control him or make decisions for him. Instead help him, give him options/suggestions. You both have to compromise.

4th: Not appreciating him enough.
Sometimes when things are not done our way or when we don't get what we want, we tend to focus on the bad such as 'you loser, you can't do shit right', etc. No. That's not the way. Remind yourself that at least he did try, and remember the good times he did. Don't expect him to do things way out of his reach because he's just human. You can't expect him to provide you with every thing you want, that's not how relationship works. Acknowledge and appreciate him!!!!

5th: Getting jealous.
Don't let insecurities and doubts get the better of you. Trust him. Unless that bitch flirts with him... (In that case, that's another story).

6th: Trying to change him.
Remember that when you chose him, you need to be with him for who he is, not for who you want him to be.  


Don't think too much. Just let everything run smoothly. Don't try to force it out, Dont control him.
Yes, reminder to self!